It's a Random Kinda Day

 Hi everyone. I know it has been a long, long time since I have written; and that is kinda on me. I needed a new laptop as I would solely be using it for writing and keeping my older one for movies, pics, etc. I really miss my writing because it is the absolute most therapeutic thing I could recommend.

So this blurb is a RANDOM, in the sense that I am just going to babble about whatever topics come to mind... Ready???

I am once again, going to talk about celebrities and their lives being on full display 24/7

Let's discuss Britney Spears for a moment... Now, most of us have watched BS since even before her and Justin Timberlake were mouseketeers... We all watched as she shot to fame bringing out the mental challenges she would be facing; and dead smack in the spotlight for the world to see. We sat back and watched Britney, shave her head, have complete incontrollable episodes and meltdowns; causing her dad to take conservatorship of BS and anything remotely belonging to her.

We, or at least I, can acknowledge that someone needed to step up, but I don't think it ever should have been allowed anyone who could benefit from her money or status. Let's skip to many years later as the media still hounded BS and many, many other celebs who deal with mental health... its appalling to me.

I am only using Britney Spear,s as an example today, because she just released a memoir called "Woman in Me"; being dropped on October 24, 2023. I think its all fabulous that you want to release a story of your life (As I am doing the same thing), but is it wrong of me to refuse to write down names just so it doesn't harm the person I am speaking about???

BS wrote about how Justin Timberlake cheated on her and when she got pregnant, he pushed her into having an abortion. Do I want to say that my mind is blown? Not that I knew either one of them personally, but I'd totally understand why he didn't want to have a child just as their careers were shooting up... not that an abortion should be used as a form of birth control... But can we have a reality check???

BS has not been a soft spoken celeb, so I cannot picture him forcing her to do it.  Did he drag her by her hair into some alleyway and beat her until she lost the baby? Nope, he told her he didn't want to have children... and in defense of Justin...It took two to tango, so this wouldn't solely lie on him.

My point being, WHY? WHY??? Why would Britney even release any of this information now? What because her marriage imploded and she can't handle seeing Jessica and Justin happy??? I partially blame the media here because even now, there are stories/articles/blurbs that write about Britney Spears' or Amanda Bynes' mental health struggles, often poking fun at them in extreme episodes. 

This is NOT how we educate the public.

Instead of focusing on the actions, look for the reasoning; and then do not exploit it. Instead of blasting someone who is broken, talk about the illness and how to help people around you understand it and sometimes be able to catch the signs of someone slipping.

Sorry, fried brain on this one... it sucks being sick. Stay blessed lovies

Originally posted: September 18, 2023

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