That Time of Year

Tis the season, right? For many, this is the time of year that families are preparing to get together, do gift exchanges and having those delicious turkey or ham dinners. Normally, I would be in the mood but not this year. Last year was filled with laughter, good times and good people... we had a huge family dinner and it was simply amazing. That's what the season is all about, being with loved ones and simply enjoying each others company... presents have nothing to do with it; the company was gifts enough.

Not this year...

I am completely on my own and honestly I just want to pack up my Christmas stuff, close the curtains, shut off the lights and just skip everything... wake me up mid January please. 

This is something everyone needs to recognize; while the holidays may be simply amazing for you, and I am happy for you; more often than not, people are just hurting at this time of year. We mourn the ones we lost. We cry for the ones who are not gathered at the table. While you are all cozy and singing carols, remember some of us are much less fortunate than you.

I'd just like people to be aware that it's this time of year that some find unbearable and their depression becomes far more than they can cope with. Suicide awareness is such a key topic right now. Please stay vigilant because those of us who already suffer from depression are fantastic at masking what's really going on, especially since most of us had no other choice. 

So, if there is one thing I can ask for, it would be this...

Please show some kindness to people, you have no idea what they are going through. A simple "hello" or friendly visit (or call), can make all the difference in someone's life.  You'll never know how much such a simple gesture can mean to someone; trust me!!!

Have a blessed day Lovies!!!