Don't Come At Me With Your BS

 

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Good Morning all you beautiful people out there. I have so much I need to write about, that I hardly know where to begin.

How about I just hand out some verbal diarrhea and we can go from there? LOL Let the shitshow commence (no pun intended).

As you know, my rule is to not name names, so I will continue to honour that. I am going to get into it a lil bit about last night's convo that isn't really bothering me... although I DID find it ignorant; and although it seems to be the norm, I don't nor will I ever accept it as the "norm".

Let's put it to y'all this way...

If you know someone who is in a crisis, whether it be mental, emotional, physical or otherwise... do you come at them with this stupid comment... "It will all happen in God's time?" I am sorry, (actually I am NOT), but I couldn't bite my tongue on that one. I am soooooo used to hearing that bullshit li(n)e that I wasn't about to let someone else chirp the same thing to them. I literally told the person, I will respect your opinion but then you need to also respect mine; I don't believe in God, so he/she doesn't need to be brought up in the convo, especially since it has NOTHING to do with the situation at hand. 

WELLLLLLL, that set off a series of comments and a lifestory that was all written out for the public to read. Let's just say that I could literally feel my personal growth in this moment because I told this person, that they weren't the only one with a story... we all have them but I am choosing to be a warrior, not a victim. PERIOD!!! What works for one person, doesn't work for another. They don't know me, nor what I have endured and I am there to simply support my friend in any way I can. I asked them to not respond to me because I have ZERO interest in their God and the bullshit line about things happening on his/her time. This person then attempted to berate me and how I was being ignorant... BLAH BLAH BLAH!!! 

I continued to choose not to engage in this utter stupidity, because I understand that people all are dealing with something, in one way or another... what their belief system is, is theirs and theirs alone... but don't get all preachy and judgy with me, then claim it had nothing to do with God. They should be grateful I bit my tongue because I am well knowledged in Christianity and their beliefs and from what this person was telling me, their lifestyle goes very much against what "Christianity" is all about... ANYWHO... I didn't engage any further because frankly, I don't give a rat's ass what complete strangers believe about me. Your opinion of me, is not my business!!!

Just know that at the end of the day, I was and will continue to be the one who is standing beside my friend, throughout their trials and tribulations. Why? Because I know exactly what it feels like to be in that position and I want them to know that they are not alone and they can conquer their demons, knowing they are not the only one wielding the sword.

Well I think that is enough for this blurb... I have to deal with some actual life stuff right now... and will be back in a bit to write at least one more for today. And for those who really know me, they know that the convo I briefly explained shows how much personal growth I have actually have; and that person is BLESSED that I have enough restraint to no longer chew them up and spit them out, like I used to.

Have a good one lovies... I shall be back