Disconnected

 

Yah, it's that kind of day for me today. I feel very disconnected from some people, and it is bothering me. I mean most of us communicate by texts these days, and I find that sooooo impersonal...what if I want to hear your voice??? What's so difficult of picking up the phone and calling me?

I don't know anymore. I am really struggling with stuff... Like, why am I the one always reaching out first??? Aren't friendships supposed to be 50/50? What about relationships???

Am I missing something here? Where did the part of visiting face to face vanish?? (This is already before COVID, so no excuses). When did this world get so cold???

I am making a promise to myself today, I will no longer be the one initiating anything. If you want to talk to me... then do it. I already know, so I won't be shocked at how many people I will lose because I no longer take that on my shoulders. If I lose you out of my life, then we really weren't friends to begin with.

I am feeling a ton of emotions right now. I know, in my heart of hearts, that it IS intentional; because I would never tell someone I am or was too busy to take the time to make sure my loved one was doing okay... so don't play that card with me. Don't insult my intelligence!!!

So, as I have stated on my facebook...

Spiritual women ... are no longer accepting patients!!! It's the simple facts. I don't care if we have been friends for 30+ years, 20 years, 10 years, 5 years or even a few months... not staying in touch with someone is utterly disrespectful.

Don't get mad when I do the exact same thing to you, that you are doing to me right now.!!! I'm too old for horseshit and too young for the grave... so go live your dramatic life and leave me alone.

I am one who has no fear of living alone... I am a Sagittarius after all... and we CRAVE solitude. This is all I got for this entry. I really hope that this is being understood by ALL who are in my life. No communication from you? None from me!!!

Peace out!!!

~Phoenix

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