Fk It. You're Going on Blast!!!

 

Page 67 of 366. Good Day my Lovies... I am going to be writing about things I usually don't discuss, but this one has me sooooooo disrespected that I am going to share it, in full (minus names).

Last night, I was asked if I "would be down" to going to a bash this season. My response was,"Probably not!!!"Then I got these outrageous voice messages... I am going to share them, verbatim so nothing is misconstrued. Ready???

"You're missing out on a good time. You don't have the old looking snatch, ya know! I thought you were good; come on I thought you were a club (?) Fuck, you can't help a guy out here? Eh, Scumbag, eh? You're a Liberal Scumbag to me, eh? 

"Eh, you don't want to listen, do ya? You know that's why I didn't come to see you; I know you're a scumbag Lib, eh?  Huh Huh... You're too vagina for me Babe. You know, I love you. You're a good friend. But I don't know babe!!!"

Just let it be known, I have not given this guy my address. I never invited him to my city and I most certainly am not his "BABE"!!! I got, and still am fucking pissed at the disrespect; but then I remember he is nothing more than a pissant.

Growth and confidence has given me the ability to no longer instantly react, or react at all... I can proudly say, I didn't entertain this douchecanoe with a response. I mean, I could confront him, but I'd never get an apology from him. I can openly say I am not this person's friend and I cannot even begin to fathom why he says he loves me???

I hold the word "love" very sacred; and I only use it to those I really love... like my brothers, my sisters, my kids, my best friend and my beloved. It is NOT a word that should ever be used against me, because I would more than likely detach and disappear from your life. Love to me, goes with honour, loyalty and respect... so don't say love unless all three words apply to it. That's just my two cents on the word!!!

I am going to end the blurb with this... Don't ever attempt to intimidate me, or try to manipulate me into helping you, or doing you any favours. The only people I help are the ones closest to me, with no questions asked... no one else!!!

I really hope this gets across to some people, because there are a few out there who I KNOW have been in similar situations and I beg you all to open your eyes; you're not a piece of meat... and I am pretty sure slavery ended centuries ago.

No woman needs to be subjected to this kind of talk... bashing, then saying "I love you"??? You all know what we call these types of people, right??? For this guy, he is 100% a narcissistic sociopath... I'd love to shout out his name to warn people; but he will be the one who undoes himself... He is the type that will always expose his true nature when you defy him.

Lovies? I hope you have a blessed day. Stay safe. Stay warm. Be well. Be loved. Blessed Be

~Phoenix

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