Thoughts of the Day

 

Page 113 of 366. Hi Lovies. I hope all is well with you, and that you're having a great day with this beautiful weather we are having. I am just in a weird kinda mood today. I am coming out of a weekend filled with laughter and love; that I am sooooo at peace right now, I almost don't know what to do with it.

I really hope that I have the energy to get some writing in on the crime blog, because every day that passes without writing in there, I feel lazy... I am an odd person that way. I am fascinated with crime, the investigations, the court proceedings and the aftermath. 

Once I am done that, I am one of those truth seekers... comes with being a Sagi!!! I look at the case from a different perspective. Like what caused the convicted to do what they did? Why did they choose that person as a victim?? Is the story as black and white as it has been portrayed??? What was the mindset of the perp in the moment???? Most of all, the age old question... is it nature versus nurture?????

Having a background in law, pushes me to try to dig as deep as I can. I am one of those "I NEED TO KNOW!!!" kinda people. This was the biggest struggle with studying law... 

How could I be a prosecutor/DA and adamantly pursue a charged suspect, if I can understand why they did what they did... Like if i was in the same position, I would've probably done the same thing. 

Then on the other side of things... what if I am on the defense team??? What if I was given a case where I were to defend an appalling person; like a child killer or a rapist or pedophile? How could I in good conscience defend such disturbing behaviour??? The fact is, I can't!!! I don't know how people do that. 

I guess it would be the same type of deal if I had ever become a cop (not that I would if my life depended on it...) I don't think I could arrest someone who did the wrong thing for all the right reasons, and on the opposite side of the coin... I don't think I could restrain myself if I had to deal with a perp who was a child abuser or killer, or rapist or a pedo.

I DO try to see all 3 sides of the coin when it comes to any case that crosses my path; but MAN, some of them.... nah, there is no explaining away nor giving reasons as to why people do the shyt they do. ANyways, I should probably stop writing about this because I might just end up in a rabbithole when it comes to my views on the judicial system and their complete lack of actual justice. It's truly a sad day when street justice is the only way some families will ever see any kind of justice done. What has our world become??? 

Stay safe. Stay cool. Be well. Be blessed. Most of all, my Lovies... BE LOVED!!!

~Phoenix

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