Person. NOT Burden!!!

Afternoon Lovies. I know this is going to be a bit of a "bizarre" blurb, seeing how this world is soooo different from the views I personally uphold in my own life.

I want to begin that I am not here to disrespect anyone, nor any movement that has caused the world to be the way it is today; BUT I AM going to speak my mind on it...

I am ol school. I mean that in EVERY sense. I firmly believe the man is still the head of the household. 

A woman's place is still in the kitchen, and if financially it is feasible, a mom should stay home with the children until they are at least in school full time.

The reason I am a stickler on the mom staying home with the children is simple. Just look outside... observe the generations who haven't had parental guidance in their primary years. There is zero discipline. Zero respect. Zero morals. I firmly believe when feminism became the norm, family and the concept of family was tossed in the backseat. Children fell through the cracks, and we are all seeing the results of it now. It is truly disturbing that no one else sees this!!!

I am sooooo tired of women constantly claiming that anything a man can do, they can do too. NO, WE CANNOT!!! History has shown that. REPEATEDLY!!! Men and women are build different, that is like comparing apples and oranges. We have strength in different things. 

(Look at women giving birth and men trying to cope with the "man cold", and you can see the difference in our strengths there, eg.)

I KNOW a lot of people will look at me like I have lost my mind, when I talk about my views on the world and homelife, but unless they have lived the life, they truly cannot understand it...

Being ol school, is not about being beaten, or being a servant to your spouse/partner. It is about honour and respecting each other. It's about loving each other. For me, I love to cook, so to make sure there is a hot meal, freshly made daily for my hard working man, is not a hardship, not an order... it is a matter of respect and a labour of love. 

When he has a day off, and is watching sports or has buddies over doing whatever, making sure there is food and drinks readily available is a sign of respect. 

I don't understand why people make such a big deal about it. It isn't slavery. It's not anything all our previous generations haven't done. When you become partners (in life), you essentially become one... you are to always have each other's back above any other's. 

That being said, the respect, love, loyalty, honour and trust goes both ways. No man who loves and respects his woman will beat her, or mistreat her in any way. She would be his pride and his heart. She isn't viewed as the weaker sex; she is simply his... in the sense, that she is a part of him. So obviously he is going to protect her, like he would protect himself, and vice versa.... and if you find this kind of love and partnership... then you have truly found your "ride or die". 

*Mind you, this doesn't always happen in relationships, sometimes the one who always has their (or your) back, is a friend whose been there forever... just remember that.*

Yes, I realize I am sounding like I am very anti-feminism. I guess, in a way I am; but if it works for you... FANTASTIC!!! It is just NOT the way of life for me. I like to be home, and to make sure things are good on the homefront and for him to come home to peace and tranquility. People tend to forget that he is facing enough battles int he world, he doesn't need to come home to a war as well.

Just remember you should always be his "person", not his "burden"!!!

~Phoenix