Don't Be a ButterFkr!!!

Page 5 of 365. Good Afternoon Lovies. I hope you all are doing well. It's a chilly one out there, awfully windy; and we all know how much the wind can trigger me. I have been trying to block out the sound of the whistling wind with some classic rock and of course, concentrate on writing on here, as I completely missed a day, due to lack of sleep.

Today, I am going to write about someone who is extremely close to my heart, but this goes out to people in general...

Let's say you have a career, or a "gift" that many people are fascinated and intrigued by. They know that this is your livelihood; but feel that since you are such great friends, or "buddies", if you will, that you should give them a discount... you know... because you're "brothers"... you're "fam". 

The usual horseshyt words that are spewed when somebody wants something from you. God, I have such a disdain for people like this. I am not going to put people on blast here, nor am I going to reveal who I am talking about here, because I have respect like that!!!

I think the biggest problem I have with these scenarios is this... The people I am talking about have huge hearts, and more often than not, they don't have the heart to say "No" to people... It is not in them to "disappoint" others; yet these BUTTERFUCKERS cannot be found when they need them. I am sooooo fed up with users and abusers.

Thankfully, I have a big sister who has really listen and HEARD me these past 11ish years; teaching me to stop being so kind-hearted to those who don't reciprocate it or equal my effort... this has really rang true for me, in the past few years. I have cut down the list of people I associate with. Those I once considered friends are mere "acquaintances", if I even acknowledge them at all anymore. Some "friends" have become so close, they are part of my tribe; then there are others who are simply in my famILY... and that circle has NOT changed in years!!!

I am just going to make this one last thing VERY clear...

I don't care if you are a female or male friend... if I see people taking advantage of you and your good heart, I won't be standing idly by and watch people hurt you (No matter how hard you try to hide it... I see through your facade). I didn't become this warrior woman by fluke. I am as strong as I am because I had you people behind me, encouraging me to rise up, and remind life who the real bitch is!!!

Stay safe. Stay warm/cool. Be well. Be blessed. Most of all, Be LOVED!!!

~ Phoenix

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