I Don't Tolerate BS

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Good Evening Lovies. I hope you all had a great weekend. The weather has been decent, I suppose. I am looking forward to the cooler days, the changing of the leaves, and the crisp breeze... along with the scent of sweet apple cider :) 

Yah, I am NOT a "pumpkin spice" kinda anything, if I am being totally honest!!!

I have got to admit, a few things have happened recently that are bouncing around in my head, and I feel I need to express them... at least, in the best way I possibly can.

I have been in love with someone for a very long time. We have a great relationship, on all the levels that consist on making one so. We are very open with each other. We don't shy away from talking about difficult or awkward subjects. We share our goals and troubles. There is NO lack of communication, nor comprehension. We have the same goals and are looking at the future as one. We share the same values and morals. 

Basically, to put it in a nutshell, we are two peas in a pod; who have zero intention of letting people or things tear us apart. There are no cracks, nor troubles that people form the outside can pick at to diminish what we share. We have an ol school relationship, where we ALWAYS defend in public and correct in private. I have NO problem with him being the leader. 

I love that he is protective, loving and territorial. There is no mistaking who I am with, and who I belong to... It goes both ways. I belong to one man, and he belongs to one woman. I may be led by him, guided and protected by him but make no mistake, I am just as protective and territorial when it comes to him. Some view that as jealousy, but you cannot be jealous of what you already have. 

I have the utmost respect, love, trust, honour and loyalty in my man; as he does with me. I have his back, as much as he has mine. He is my best friend... sometimes my only friend. He has been the one who has never wavered EVER in the decades we have known each other.

I guess what I am getting at is this...

I am fiercely loyal. I am fiercely protective. I trust him with every fiber of my being. I am writing this because I am noticing that someone (or a few someones), are attempting to weasel their way into spaces that are not theirs... and I don't play that game. 

I am NOT rattled by your sly words, or ignorant comments; don't think for one moment I didn't tell him exactly what the "game" is that you're playing. I don't hide shyt from him. THIS IS WHAT GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALL ABOUT... Not hiding things from the other person, and trusting them with everything that is on your mind... anything that is troubling you.

This is my rant aka lecture for today. Stay safe. Stay cool/warm. Be well. Be blessed. Most of all, Be LOVED!!!

~ Phoenix

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