You Heartless Canadian

 

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Good Afternoon Lovies. Happy FriYay!!! 

I hope your workday flies by smoothly and you get to rock into the weekend without any drama. May you be safe and have a great time, in whatever you are doing. 

I have no plans for the weekend, but I am perfectly fine with staying home and enjoying the comforts of my bubble. I have zero qualms about sitting at home, catching up on a movie, or simply hanging out with my Ma. 

Peace and tranquility are always my goal!!! I am NOT one who goes out to bars. I don't need to get all dressed up and hit the dance floor, flauting my shyt to see which guy's attention I can grab. I am great in that department, and quite honestly, I am not a floozy; my body, my lady bits are for only one man to see... it's called RESPECT!!! 

I think there are a lot of people ~ especially women who have seemed to forgotten what that word means. It's not a control thing. It's not just about respecting your significant other, it's also about your own self respect. Do you really want to have the attention of several guys ~ attention for all the wrong reasons??? Sure, we all go through a "hoe" phase... preferrably when you're young and dumb. Maybe, I am just getting old and don't see the point in the bar scene and "wham bam" life anymore.

Don't get it twisted, I am not judging people. I am just expressing how I feel about it, and where I am in life. 

Anywho, let's get to what this title is all about... LMFAO

The other night, I was called a "Heartless Canadian". I am sorry, say what now??? I did have a good giggle because I am the furthest thing from being heartless, UNLESS you give me a reason to be.

Anyone who knows me, knows I love, Love and LOVE.... until I don't!!!

I am not going to get into the nitty gritty, nor why it eventually was said to me; other than, I was getting soooo tired of the constant "berating" and lack of effort on their part to keep the "relationship/friendship" going; that I just gave up. What was a simple display of showing my effort, blew up into this person flipping out like a reject (for lack of a better word)... I honestly was tired of the tantrums before this, and our connection was already hanging by a thread. 

When this tantrum started, I simply replied with a "notice I am not arguing"... and simply took them out of my life. They have no way to contact me, and when I say I am DONE with someone, trust those words!!! If that makes me heartless... than I am the coldest Canadian you'll ever meet; either way, I am staying true to me and I still keep my self respect. Don't ever come at me, and expect me to just take shyt from anyone... because you too, may meet this "HEARTLESS CANADIAN". 😂😂😂

Stay safe. Stay warm. Be well. Be blessed. Most of all, Be LOVED!!!!

~ Phoenix

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