You Think Your Opinion Counts?!!

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Good Afternoon Lovies. Happy Hump Day everyone... I only hope that the humping is in the best way possible. Nothing worse than people screwing you for all the wrong reasons... Just saying!!!

I am going to write about something that occurred last night. I am mentioning it because I hope my response to this encourages other people to react the same way. I have to admit, I don't always have the strength to act the way I did last night; but maybe it's the love I have from those in my life... especially my person... He's seen it all, so he is the one person who knows me, inside and out. 💚

I couldn't even take the comment seriously because the person who wrote it, clearly was a keyboard warrior, who couldn't post in their own name... they posted anonymous. I really can't stand people who don't have the balls to say shit to other's faces. It is rather disappointing that they couldn't be more creative, to be perfectly honest.

The gist of the post was basically saying that I milk money over various men off the internet. I can't mind my own business... yet I never leave my apartment. (MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!!). I have men live with me, but when they don't want me anymore I create drama and proceed to lies about them. I am apparently a gross person... Blah Blah. Fucking blah!!! LOL.

The sad thing is, for one, the person couldn't even spell my name correctly, nor even have the right name for me. They made it seem like I have tons of men live with me... LOL, I have had exactly 2 men live with me in the past 16 years... 

Regardless, I don't need to defend myself, nor explain myself to some pissant on the internet. What do I ALWAYS preach???

YOUR OPINION OF ME IS NOT MY BUSINESS...

This holds true here too. If I was insecure about myself and those in my life, I probably would have had a shit fit and worry about who is spewing garbage; but the reality is this... if their life is so drab and empty that they need to make up bullshit about me... Have at it!! I'd rather it be me they are talking about, than someone who can't handle it. 

Go on then... 

I look forward to the next attempt, just know this ~ the people in my life, who actually matter, don't care what you have to say. Those are the same people I don't have to waste my time trying to explain anything. Those who know me, know me. 

PERIOD. END OF STORY. If it makes your life better, if it makes you happy; I look forward to the next installment of what is new in MY life. CHEERS 🎉

Anyways, I have spent enough time explaining what these birds did. Just know, I am doing fine. I thank those who are always there... my person, my brothers, my closest friends and my Ma. You all have taught me that it's okay to not worry what others have to say. Usually what they are spewing is a reflection of themselves. 

If this is the case, I really hope they find people like I have in my life, and find peace in their troubled minds.

Stay safe. Stay warm. Be well. Be blessed. Most of all, Be LOVED!!!

~ Phoenix

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